Kute vs Sexy

As I monitor the life on twitter I always find something that sends me on a tangent. The latest one was the debate between sexy and kute. What is sexy? What is kute? Men and Women both weigh in...

Sexy to me always felt like a piece of meat! I NEVER wanted to be kalled "Sexy." Maybe bekause at a young age my shapely body was always noticed by older men who would say, "Hey sexy thang" which left me with a sour taste in my mouth. The word made me feel like the only reason they were saying anything to me was bekause they wanted to do just that Sex-me. YUCK! You nasty weirdo man! "MOM!"

However, I always fall into the kategory of kute amongst the boys who were in my krew. You know, the homegirl, not the girlfriend. The kool one who was loyal and didn't share folks business. Which I didn't mind because I'd rather be kute than ugly. At least I had a favorable title...unlike many of the females who they referred to with niknames like, UgMug, Shenehneh, BoogerWolf, or even Oskar (those with unibrows). Thinking bak, they were MEAN...I digress

Yet after asking the wonderful sources around my "my people" around me I have a new understanding for the two terms:

It began with analogies:
                                      "Ice Kream is Kute and A T-Bone is Sexy"
                                        "Puppies are Kute and women are Sexy"
                                        "Sexy is in the body and Kute is in Face"

Sexy:
(male)  "Sexy is the tangibles."

"a kombo of using your features, attitude, and voice, at the right moment for maxim arousal to mind and body."

"Sexy is normally quiet. Makes more eye kontact that you kan understand the mystery of a person's ability...a stimulation of possibilities"
(female) "Sexy: A certain appeal that is arousing to one's eye but klassy also."

"Sexy is the whole package: attitude, demeanor, personality, and physikal sex appeal."
 
Kute:
(male)    "Kute is the intangibles."

"Bubbly. Pleasant. Good to be around. Always welkome. Normally has a great smile to aksent a personality"

"Kute kan't go away, even on a bad day"

(female)  "Someone who has a great personality, smile, and katches ones eye, but keeps it moving.
                 
"It's the smile, it's ALL in the smile!"


It's seems like men and women alike agree, just with different vernakular. Of kourse us women know how to express themselves A LOT better. Back to the topic at hand...I now wouldn't 'mind being either! The men make it seem ok to be a piece of enticing steak. However, they both have similar kharakteristiks. I've kome to the konclusion that Kute is a pretty/handsome person. The one your attrakted to but, may not be your mate, or provide you with the tingle in your special place.

Now the SEXY kaptivates your special place and kannot help it. The one you see and skream inside or give a double-take. Just as I felt before, it is all about the piece of meat, until you get to know them.

If you can wait that long ;0) I know how y'all do....

Hold strong my kute familia!!! We too kan be sexy! The best ability we have is the ability to turn our sexy ON and OFF! Watch out Sexies...We may sneak up and win! Don't challenge us in the streets!

Do you agree? I know that these two words will kontinue to spark kontroversy throughout the world and in relationships everywhere! Which one do you prefer or are you kategorized as?